[Jamo]

The pain we create by conducting ourselves by unilaterally impossed rules is what we cite as the rationale for pulling out.

The populations we are trying to win over get victimized by the brutality of the terrorists when we're not around, and we're talking about pretending our way is somehow more Ghandi-like?

Folks (whether they live in a cave or a Levitt-towne) will always put immediate security for themselves, their families and their clans first.