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I would have done anything for my father (he died 2 years ago) - But then he was a wonderful old soldier whose highest priority was his family and he treated my mother like a queen right up to the day he died.

I don't know how I would deal with your dilemma because I have no points of reference and simply cannot relate, but I do feel for you buddy. At the end of the day your relationship with your father is unique to the two of you and only you will know what is the right thing to do. Maybe try conferring with the rest of the family to devise a joint rescue strategy that won't place you in financial jeopardy. Good luck Scott and sorry you have to go through something like that.