Where does coaching fit?
FWIW: In the big scheme of things, I think cobra ownership is in most part totally selfish!
But at the same time, why NOT spoil oneself? I can think of thousands of worse ways to spend my time, energy and the wife's money!
I've got to spend the wife's money else she'll waste it...

Coaches in the country don't get paid anywhere near enough, but its great "community service" and mentoring young aspiring minds.
Also, well said, and well done Ash!
(PS: I'm sorry to hear of your mates passing).