I fear leaks more than any other problem. I hate them and sometimes it seems that there is no rhyme or reason for them.
ARP flywheel bolts...
http://arpinstructions.com/instructions/100-2801.pdf
ARP pressure plate bolts will depend on which ones you have. If you're using a Ford 5/16" bolt, it will be a tad different than the more modern 10mm bolts.
The bellhousing bolts will depend on which bell and which bolts, but I usually torque them somewhere in the 50-60 lb-ft range.