you could also watch this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X8kCWG3d1Cc
and by the way, as you said you are a newbie...
To work with the lead hammer looks easy, but keep im mind, when you do not hit the spinner, the result could be to hit the rim - especialliy when you will untighten the spinner.
That's why I machined a little tool to torque and untorque the spinners.
look:
http://www.clubcobra.com/photopost/s...8/ppuser/53959
http://www.clubcobra.com/photopost/s...0/ppuser/53959
A guy from this forum offers now something similar:
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I usually torque the spinner with 220 - 260 ft lb (approx. 300 – 350 Nm), which works fine (opening torque will then be higher, up to 450Nm is typical).
regarding the anti seize: you can also try "Weicon ASW HighTech"
https://www.contorion.de/chemisch-te...171105074312:s
This anti seize is white and works also fine.
Werner