[Joe Wicked]

Sounds like a keeper. Trina will not come to most events, and likely will only be at a luncheon or 2, but she knows that I enjoy it, so she doesn't mind. The only real requirement she lays on me is that I can't use money that is needed for bills/house repair/etc... That is where the "can't finance it until..." comes from. I also can't take time that needs to be used for house repairs/etc... I agree with all of that, those priorities have to come first, so no issue for me.