Rcassidy,
Why don't you go with a more rare color combo like blue with white racing stripes?
So far, 2003 Ford Dark Shadow Grey would get my vote. My friend has a Mineral Grey 2003 Cobra which also looks very nice.
Picking the "right" color can be difficult...and I agree that seeing the color in person would be the right path. I really wanted a blue car, but it took me a while to find just the right one. I'm very happy with my choice and I did it by visiting a car dealership. As soon as a I saw it I said....."yup, that's the one"!
Good luck with your search and I hope someone here can help you out.