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i purchased a tranny from a guy with wrong advertised od, he has my money, i have the transmission. i talked him into a refund & return. payment was made through paypal with visa card, so on my dime i have to send the tranny back, but he doesn't trust me and i sure don't want to send the tranny back without some type of collateral. oh, and he says the money is still in paypal.

is there a way to make this refund exchange to keep everybody honest?