Driving a BDR, your gonads will reach their limit before the car does
Seriously, if there is someone here who has driven a BDR and says the handling is bad, I respect their opinion, but I would imagine that particular car must have been really out of alignment or had some other problem. It's just not a complaint that you see frequently associated with these cars, which are known to handle well and have proven that on the track.
I think if you read the formus, you will have all the information you need to make the right choice. Good luck.