I found a way to solve this and many other problems I encountered with my wife, and it works all the time! (29 years and counting
I make it my top priority to do and say everything I can to let her know she's the girl of my dreams, share listening time with her, treat her tenderly and lovingly, go some places she loves as well as the ones I like, basically treat her like the princess she is when I do!
She responds by holding my priorities in highest regard....you would think someone stepped on the tail of a cougar if anyone so much as LOOKS like they might touch my cobra haha!!
Regards!
Dirk