I know us real men don't call the help hotline but it may be time!
Just keep at it. I'm sure when you figure it out you'll be kicking yourself. I had a couple wires going the wrong way when I started mine. Nowhere in the diagrams I had did my wiring not make sense. I had a fresh mind step in & look at it. He said "Why do you have that wire going there?". It started right up.
