BLACKJACK -
You got two choices, buddy, either the equalizer, or, you gotta SLOW DOWN!
The equalizing hitch will make all the difference in the world. It's a big, heavy, bulky affair, and, if I'm only towing across town, I usually don't hook up the bars. But, if I'm going out of town, or towing on freeways, they are a must.
Since I have a rather small tow vehicle for pulling an enclosed trailer (Mountaineer), I have also added an "Anti-Sway" bar to my hitch system. It helps keep the 18 wheelers from blowing me sideways with wind gusts.
regards,
cobrajeff