Any shrinks out there I need some couch time

[jams]

Yes I have other siblings. 4 more to be exact but I am the only one with a voice.

My other sister is so business minded that she just treats things as an appointment. 'just tell me when and where I need to be'" kind of attitude.

My one brother disagrees with having my parents travel and was not consulted but does not have enough of a backbone to speak up and say something.

My other brother is a big teddy bear who never makes waves and just goes with the flow.

Since people don't speak up they all enable the behavior and it continues.

Amazing how key people were kept out of the original arrangements so the plan could move forward. We were only brought into the loop after the flights were booked.

My sister asked everyone a year ago about a family vacation to celebrate my Mom's 75th and everyone said no. So rather than taking this cue, she plans a family vacation. She is like a little kid that wants something. She will say or do anything to get it and justifies everything by saying it is for Mom. ( I get visions of cool-aid drinkers) The end does not justify the means.